The movements which you spend in front of the Sadhguru are real and the remaining time is just futile. If you see correctly, you will understand the time you spend in this world is just for the desires only. Do you know, If the circle of the desire is ended, it gives birth to the other desire? Moreover, one relationship creates many relations. You will bring just a wife, but along with the wife you are bringing many relations like their parents, siblings, relatives, and then children. You will feel that you have just tied the knot with your wife, but you have to give an explanation to all. When you raise your hand to her, you will understand how many people will come. The wife means not just single, but it is an assemblage. You will feel that she is alone and what she can do. However, if she calls her near and dear, then you will understand the next circumstances. It is very risky.
In human life, a relationship is not just merely a relationship. You do not marry just a single person. Do you think that she will sit quietly? She will bring two or three people for you. Then she says that this is all done by you, and I am not responsible. She says that he is your son or she is your daughter, I am not liable for it. You are multiplying that, you felt that I am not enough for you and gave birth to a son. Moreover, you felt that a son is not enough, and you gave birth to a daughter. She says that this is not at all a legal argument. So look at that, if you are not satisfied in one place, then the journey in the world will not stop. If you would have controlled your youth and been satisfied, then this girl would not have come into your life, and no one would have come in her absence. Moreover, if no wife then no children. You do not require to roam around schools and no need to stand in a queue to pay fees. However, you will not get satisfied with the youth. You will feel like seeing it broadly. When you try to see the youth on a deeper level, then it will grind you like anything and make you understand, even though you will not get a sense of it. You will promise that you will not marry her in the next life. Why you are expecting some other wife in the next life? The husband says that I do not want a wife like this again in the next life and the wife also thinks that I do not want a husband like this, Isn’t it enough this life?
Paramaathma says, “I will give you opportunities until you are tired”. He says, “Come to me when you are tired I have much patience. I am persistent enough. I am not in a hurry because I am here eternally. Come to me when you are done with all your pending jobs.” Paramaathma’s statement is wonderful, isn’t it? Daily he keeps a situation either morning or evening. A Human being says I have just got up, I have some uncompleted works, please look at them. Otherwise breaking a coconut, offering flowers, lightening Dhoop sticks, and praying are forfeit. Unnecessarily the space on the wall is wasted. If you do some work for me, then you will be hanging on the wall. Otherwise, I will throw it out. People will come to this stage. Paramaathama gives statement that,
Throw it, where ever you throw there is no meaning to your life unless you throw yourself into me. Some or other day you will throw yourself from this world. You will throw yourself from you. Finally, you will flow within me, unless you flow within me there is no meaning to your life at all.
That we call Jeevan Mukthi.
